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25-06-2019 07:52 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST
Welcome @MDT - tonight we are discussing being a male that is in a caring role!
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25-06-2019 07:52 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST
@Nino thats wonderful that your study and work intersects in a way that helps with your identity
Nice one on the motorbike @Determined - and trying is all you need, small steps but the awareness is there which is awesome
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25-06-2019 07:54 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST
I was expected to be an emotional support for my mother, when I was only 10 years old - & did many of the household chores.
I was blamed for not looking after my brother, when I was only 5 years old (he was 4).
I looked after, & helped to raise my youngest brother (when in my teens).
Those are excessive expectations to put on a young child (me).
So no, there is no support or understanding from my relatives - they simply expect me to do it.
That's why I have lived interstate, for the past 25 years.
Adge
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST
Or being a caring person?
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25-06-2019 07:55 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST
Additional note on identity
For a long time my 'identity' was closely tied in with my work role. In a lot of ways because it was a form of escape from the challenges at home resulting in long hours at work. So when I lost that job (resigned) due to burn out not only did I loos that part of my identity that was when my darling also really derailed as not having me providing and not knowing what the future healed was too much for her. Particularly me being lost and not knowing what to do. I have always had to put on a brave face as the foundation for darlings wellness.
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST
Hi @eth great to hear different perspectives, I think we can learn from eachother
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25-06-2019 07:56 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST
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25-06-2019 07:58 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST
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25-06-2019 07:59 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST
@Adge you touch on an important topic there of young carers, there is more support and awareness around these days but still a way to go.