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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi @Shaz51 

 

This is your second Mum feeling really concerned for you

 

I really feel badly that your Mum expects so much from you - I seriously feel that she has forgotten your own health is sus and having her just cancel her services shows that - and then the physio wants to know if you will be there

 

It seems to me as if you are the one everyone wants to answer the questions and do the chores and be Mrs Fixit - I really once again encourage to be firm with your mother that you can't do everything esp if she cancels the services she has

 

And I know these services can if iffy - but things get done even if they are not done to perfection

 

I really feel for you - and for Mr Shaz with frozen shoulders - that's painful - and to me it seems he might be feeling left out - I know this is really hard

 

Sending hugs to my little family - and Poor Little Kidney - he really does need to be cared for - I take it the antibiotics you are taking are to help Little Kidney along 

 

It's an over-load Shaz - and I know - so hard to say know

 

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

@Shaz51 

Were you able to take it a bit easier today?

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I was @Former-Member 

until I found out thatmum had to wait at the hospital way after 10-30am to get her leg redressed ( my sunty took her up to the hospital)

mum was not home when the dietician or the physio came today

and then I got a unexpectant phone call from the memory clinic saying mum had a appt this week --- what !!!

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Was the appointment made while she was in hospital @Shaz51 ?

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looks like it was @Former-Member 

anyway they rang mum again and mum cancelled the appt

and then they rang me again for the future

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How did you get on today @Shaz51 ?

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

been raining here soo much all day @Former-Member 

no work today

I cleaned mum`s house

the Nurse , the physio and meals on wheels came today

everything back on track again for the team except for the memory clinic which I am leaving until later

and now I am sure I have a sprained ankle

 

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hello @Owlunar , @Smc , @Former-Member , @outlander 

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Transition team on track = ๐Ÿ˜€  Ankle sprain = ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

yep soooo sore walking on it @Former-Member , tried resting it this afternoon , as long as I don`t get up and walk ---- arrggg

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

How are Mr Shaz's nursing skills @Shaz51 at present?