Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

[Anastasia]

@Shaz51 

[Shaz51]

@Former-Member 

Mr shaz  feeling very  overwhelmed  with everything,  so he decided to  cancel a whole lot of our  jobs 

I am happy  with what he is happy  with 

And we have cancelled  2 jobs so far for today 

[Former-Member]

@Shaz51 trust you are able to get done what you feel you need to be able to do.

[Former-Member]

Checking in @Shaz51 

[Shaz51]

Hello and hugs @Former-Member 

mr shaz is seeing the doctor again this week -- 3 weeks in a row 

he has had 3 phone calls from mental health and are going to work out a plan with the doctor

but mr shaz said that the team is thinking no plan !!

mr shaz is doing what he wants , not following  what the doctor wants him to do , wants him to go o his original meds amounts again but he is not 

his anxiety is increasing when i am not around ,   tuesdays are the worse like today 

he believes that i will need to be his carer soon 

soo will be interesting on thursday appt when he will say yes to whatever the doctor says 

sending you lots of hugs for you , mr darcy 

and how is your mum xxx

[Shaz51]

Hello @Emelia8 , @Former-Member , @Smc 

The doctor  yesterday  is saying that Mr  shaz is more depressed than having  anxiety 

[Emelia8]

Okay @Shaz51 ... thats interesting.  Has Mr Shaz agreed to go on any medication or have any other talk therapy or something to help with that?  What was suggested, and what has Mr Shaz agreed to, if anything?

[Shaz51]

Interesting  @Emelia8 , @Former-Member 

He does not believe the doctor  as he has both 

We have someone to  see but Mr shaz  said it is a waste of time 

One we saw said could try this or that and I don't  know what you  have 

Guinea pig  , no way says he  

[Former-Member]

It can be a tricky differentiating between normal grief related to a specific event which is ongoing (loss of house and demolishing/ rebuilding) and depression @Shaz51 .  

[Emelia8]

@Shaz51 😔🌷

Hope you are coping okay @Former-Member 🌹