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[PeppyPatti]

Yes, 

It takes a very mentally strong person to own up to our shortcomings and work with what is. 

How will you choose a lady who is not dangerous inside herself and for you to not show bad behaviour ? 

 

This picture is a photograph of a parrot which has been born with no colour but yellow. It's supposed to be a black and yellow parrot. Some people found this little tiny very dehydrated parrot on the side of the road and the shelter surmise that the parrot was rejected by parents because it looked different than the other siblings 

People have offered thousands for the bird but she is safe in a Tasmanian place to shelter birds 

[Stout]

It's funny ya know @PeppyPatti , for quite a few years now I've been ignorantly working the angle that age and wisdom would smooth out the danger, but I was in for a shock. Though not a surprise.

My disposition is such that some form of bullying or social trial has to take place before I can get anywhere. Though I like the ones I like, the lady drama can be quite disconcerting. I'm real casual in my approach and am persistent in presence. Freindly, like. But somehow I miss all the que,s and get stuffed up.

Nowadays Australian social norms have changed.

If you're not in like Flyn, your out big time.

And trouble is ready to pounce.

[Stout]

For me though it's all about how I was socialised as a younger. Add in all the blah blah, and I ended up alone. Still don't know what it would be like to be with the soul mate, the one i like, the one I love, trusty freind and all that. The one that is the same about me. Wants to be with 

[PeppyPatti]

Yes, I was attracted to very dangerous men in my past. 

Safe people are pretty "boring. "

 

[Bill16]

G'day @PeppyPatti how was the viper Room in LA,must have some great memories ay,my best memory was seeing Fatboy slim in the boiler room, dropped my first XTC when I was sixteen 

[PeppyPatti]

Iv never had them @Bill16 ..... I just like less than third of gummies every day when I go to sleep and one in the morning - less than a third and I'm fine fine 🌄 

Would have loved to have seen Fatboy slim. 

Lucky you. 

It was tremendous. What was so brilliant was - 

Age of psychedelic furs 

Johnny rotten sitting whereas everyone standing and  stick thin 21 yr Old women hanging off him. They must have been on something ??

[Bill16]

You know how you said you date dangerous men, well I attract crazy women @PeppyPatti 

[Stout]

It's very troubling @PeppyPatti , how society has changed. I've even heard those direct words from my then older peers. Now I'm saying it. As male of self determination, I ended up coming across sickening mysogony. And other things. It's hard to get back from that. I've heard of women being attracted to dangerous males, but have no personal knowledge of context or what it means.

All I know as a single loner male, I am very vulnerable. And have lived either with or in fear. This is unhealthy. 

 I rode trailbikes from the age of 14 to 25. Rode horses. Had a great time in that space.

How things have changed for me.

[PeppyPatti]

Yes.

However, you have been   beaten down. I was looking up poems to send you and I found a bit of a poem.....

 Milk and Honey", by Rupi Kaur

what is stronger

than the human heart

which shatters over and over

and still lives

I think my youngest son hasn't recovered from a past lady friend that he was in love with 5 years ago. He has become a recluse. 

[PeppyPatti]

@Bill16 I used to date dangerous men. Used to.

Used to. 

Again -- used to. 

How are you going to stop dating crazy women ?